Your personal wishes matter, and writing them down helps loved ones make decisions with confidence instead of uncertainty. This Personal Wishes & Preferences Checklist helps document service preferences, meaningful details, and “do not want” requests—so your voice is respected and your family feels supported. Many families also use templates, printing, and memorial resources available at The Funeral Program Site. Complete the form below and save as a PDF, or download blank Personal Wishes & Preferences Checklist and fill out.
Personal Details
Burial / Cremation Preferences
Service Type + Location
Obituary + Program Preferences (Optional)
Music, Readings, and Special Moments
Flowers, Donations, and Memorial Contributions
Reception / Gathering Preferences (Optional)
“Do Not Want” Preferences
Personal Message to Loved Ones (Optional)
If your family will be creating a program, prayer cards, bookmarks, or memorial keepsakes, The Funeral Program Site offers templates and professional printing so everything can coordinate beautifully.
Final tip: Keep it simple. A few clear preferences can make a huge difference for your family later.
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